A dear friend and I were speaking about how baggage will accumulate in the happiest of a relationship. In my head, it is not ideal to expect a no baggage relationship.
As long as we are forgiving each other and as long as the wounds dont hurt and hey- your body has forgotten it, then you may not acquire baggage. The ride is smoother. Baggage is acquired when there are expectations. Baggage is around when we are unable to forget and move on. More importantly when you know you can still derive some happiness out of a relationship- you are still there.
That's why you may still be friends with your chaddi buddy and may lose out on your marriage.
As long as we are forgiving each other and as long as the wounds dont hurt and hey- your body has forgotten it, then you may not acquire baggage. The ride is smoother. Baggage is acquired when there are expectations. Baggage is around when we are unable to forget and move on. More importantly when you know you can still derive some happiness out of a relationship- you are still there.
That's why you may still be friends with your chaddi buddy and may lose out on your marriage.
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